Sweet Wank

Oh sweet, sweet wank. 

Women’s masturbation has, for an incredibly long time, been taboo. Women feeling pleasure is something seedy. Women feeling pleasure is not needed for. If women’s masturbation has been visually presented it has often been done so to serve the male gaze. Woman is there to serve man’s fantasy of what woman masturbating looks like. 

Woman’s masturbation is often presented in movies so that the woman lies on their back and sighs softly until they come. I can remember few exceptions; where the female perpetrator has masturbated in what I would consider a more “natural” way: Nicole Kidman’s character Margot in Margot At The Wedding masturbated lying on her stomach in her bed in the middle of the night. Aimee Lou Wood as Aimee Gibbs in Sex Education goes on to have a masturbation marathon trying out all different kinds of poses. 

Women wank. Women wank hard. Women wank to fall asleep. Women wank because they are horny. Women wank because they feel sexy. Women wank from the back. Women wank when they’re in the middle of reading emails. Women wank when they’re watching a period drama. Women wank for fun. Women wank because it feels good and because they make themselves come. Women wank because they can. 

Remember that the clitoris is a part of your body whose sole purpose is to bring pleasure, so use it. Roosa Melentjeff